A blueprint for how you love

It's 16Personalities,
but for how you love.

Answer 20 questions, meet your love type, and find your people — the ones you click with.

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The science, minus the jargon

Most tests give you one label. You're really four things at once.

Your love type is where you land on four maps — built on attachment theory, the five love languages, and conflict styles. The combination is what makes you you, not just "the anxious one."

Attachment

How you handle closeness and distance — secure, anxious, or avoidant.

Love language

How you give and receive love — words, time, touch, acts, or gifts.

Conflict style

What you do when things get tense — pursue, retreat, or repair.

Patterns

The green flags to keep and the one worth watching.

The taxonomy

The 12 ways to love

Four attachment styles × three ways of showing love. Which blueprint is yours?

The Lighthouse
The Lighthouse
secure · steady · guiding
 The Gardener
The Gardener
secure · nurturing · patient
 The Anchor
The Anchor
secure · grounding · calm
 The Open Book
The Open Book
anxious · expressive · honest
 The Magnet
The Magnet
anxious · drawn-in · warm
 The Firework
The Firework
anxious · all-in · intense
 The Island
The Island
avoidant · self-reliant · calm
 The Fortress
The Fortress
avoidant · guarded · loyal
 The Drawbridge
The Drawbridge
avoidant · slow-to-open · deep
 The Chameleon
The Chameleon
mixed · adaptive · shifting
 The Phoenix
The Phoenix
mixed · reborn · resilient
 The Storm
The Storm
mixed · passionate · turbulent

Each one has its own page — what it's like, how it argues, who it matches with. Read the full taxonomy →

Go deeper

Your free result tells you who you are. The full blueprint tells you what to do about it.

A 20-page report written for your exact type — no clinical jargon, just the plan.

  • Your four axes, mapped to your exact position.
  • Your triggers — and a de-escalation script for each.
  • Your compatibility with all 12 types.
  • A 30-day plan toward secure love.
The full blueprint
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And then you find your people

The best part isn’t the label.
It’s who’s around the fire.

Same 12 types, same test — here’s what it feels like once you know the people who love the way you do.

Ready to see how you love?

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